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If you start going through the list of anniversary gift ideas for each year, as you get to year number eight, you start to get the feeling that the people who made up these lists were already starting to run out of ideas. We’re already starting to get into multiple repeats and the ideas themselves aren’t the easiest things to shop for. In spite of this problem, we’re going to try to give you some decent ideas for your eighth anniversary gifts.

The traditional gifts for number eight are bronze and pottery. Yes, these really inspire some great ideas. But if you sit down and give it some thought, actually quite a lot of thought, you can come up with some really nice gifts to give to your husband or wife. We’re going to start off with bronze.

When most people think of bronze the first thing that comes to mind is the bronze medal that you win at the Olympics. Well, this is probably not going to be an option unless your spouse is an Olympic swimmer. And even at that, they still have to compete. However, there are a few things that are made out of bronze or contain some bronze in them. For starters, several brands of pots and pans are partially made out of bronze. It may not be the most romantic gift in the world, but it’s practical. After all, you both have to eat and in order to do that, you need something to cook in. And of course there are always those special bronze collector plates that they’re always selling on TV. Not sure if they’re really worth what they say and if they’re going to increase in value, but they do look very nice.

Pottery is a little easier. If you go to a store that specializes in types of pottery, you are bound to find something nice. Plus, there is pottery from just about every corner of the world. Some of it is quite unusual. While this kind of gift is not at all practical, pottery makes a great show piece. And if you give it some thought, you can actually make some use out of a nice piece of pottery. For example, a pottery bowl can be used as a candy dish. Certainly when guests come by and see one of these things stuffed with Hershey Kisses, they’re most certainly be surprised.

For the modern gift and this is certainly a puzzle, we revert back to the traditional gift of anniversary number three. That’s right, leather is the modern gift of anniversary number eight. If you need some quick ideas for leather, of which there are plenty to go around, a short list would be, boots, belts, handbags, wallets, jackets and shoes. Now aren’t you glad that somebody came up with the modern gift idea for each anniversary?

The anniversary gifts for number eight aren’t the easiest to come up with if you’re a traditionalist or if you already sprung for leather on number three, but with a little thought, you’ll come up with something.

Michael Russell
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Well, you’ve finally made it. You’re about to celebrate your milestone 20th anniversary and you’re looking for an anniversary gift that will be just right for the occasion. Fortunately, after quite a few years of no traditional gift ideas, this year we have both traditional and modern gift ideas for you to choose from. We’ll go over both of them in this article.

The traditional gift for this milestone anniversary is china. Guys, get ready to open up your wallet big time. Ladies, get the china closet cleaned out. Hopefully, by now, your husband has either built you one or at least bought you one. Either way, you’re going to have a use for it.

All kidding aside, fine china is one of the nicest gifts you can get for your wife. There’s something about china that makes it special, aside from the cost of a really nice set. Maybe it’s the old tradition of mothers passing down their old china to their daughters when they get married. Many times the china that is actually passed down came from your grandmother and not your mother. That is why it is not unheard of to go to somebody’s house and sit down to a meal served on a china set that is over 100 years old. Some traditions die hard. This is one of them.

Of course, not all china has to be something that you can eat off. If your wife already has that nice set handed down from mother, you might want to get her a nice china figurine. Figurines come in all shapes and sizes including palm trees, religious figurines, china angels and even some very strange looking china critters. More likely than not, they’ll probably just end up on a shelf somewhere forming spider webs, but they are nice to look at.

If you’d prefer to save yourself the expense of fine china, you had better think again because the modern gift idea for this anniversary is platinum. If you’ve never even seen anything made out of platinum, you may have some trouble thinking of something to get, especially when you don’t even know what things are made of platinum. No problem. We’ve got you covered.

One thing made out of platinum that your wife would absolutely love, is a platinum anniversary ring. This would probably be one of the biggest surprises you could get your wife. Oh and don’t worry guys. These rings are also made for men as well, so there is always a possibility that your wife will dig into her fun money and buy you one as well.

Of course, there are other things made of platinum besides rings. You can get all sorts of jewelry made of platinum, including earrings, bracelets, necklaces, pendants, cufflinks and brooches. These items alone will give you more than enough to choose from for just that special gift.

Either way, china or platinum, this anniversary is going to cost you a pretty penny. Considering how special your 20th anniversary is, your anniversary gift should be just as special. For both of you.

Michael Russell Your Independent guide to Anniversary Gifts

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Your organization has an anniversary every year. The question is, are you using this opportunity to set yourself apart from your competition? Here are seven keys to creating a successful marketing program around your upcoming corporate anniversary.

Key One: Recognize the Marketing Value of Your Corporate or Brand Anniversary

Anniversary marketing is not about your past, nor is it “old hat” or out of date. On the contrary, it is one of the most effective marketing initiatives.

You recognize the companies and organizations that have recharged their marketing programs by focusing on their anniversaries. Companies like Ford (100) and Harley-Davidson (100) and Sports Illustrated (50) and the Principal Financial Group (125).

Many others have found the value of anniversaries that don’t round off to 25. Companies like Southwest Airlines (33), Yankee Candle (20), Old Navy (10) and Appleton Estate Jamaican Rum (155). In fact, nearly 45% of the companies we researched are celebrating “off year” company or brand anniversaries.

Recognize that your past is the strongest criterion people have to judge your future. So use your history of success to tell clients and customers about that future and, most importantly, tell them about your place in their future.

Key Two: Get Started Now

You may have heard that Harley-Davidson began planning its 100th anniversary celebration the day after its 95th anniversary!

That tells you that it’s never too soon to get started. Because the most important thing you can do to assure success is to start planning today. Don’t limit the scope of what you can accomplish waiting to put plans in place.

Also, make sure you develop and promote a “sense of urgency” within your company about your anniversary. That urgency is an important element in a successful anniversary and can carry over into other aspects of your organization.

Key Three – Know What You Want as a Return On Investment

At the end of a year of anniversary marketing, you will want to know what you accomplished, what was your Return On Investment (ROI). This is all about measurement.

Determine the measurements that matter and find out where you are now, at the beginning. Then ask yourself the question: What has to happen over the course of this year for us to declare this effort a success? What changes in attitudes and sales do we want to accomplish with our anniversary?

Then when you are done, and if necessary, during the course of the year, measure what you have accomplished and compare this with your measurements from the beginning. That is your ROI.

It is not enough to say, “We had these events for hundreds of customers and employees, and distributed thousands of brochures. And did you see our ad in the Wall Street Journal?” You must be able to measure your success.

Key Four – Involve Your Employees

When PSEG celebrated its 100th, the company asked its employees to vote on their choice for an anniversary logo. Other companies have asked for employee suggestions about how best to celebrate their anniversaries.

By asking, you are seeking to make your employees full partners in the planning and execution of your company anniversary. This is an unparalleled opportunity to build employee pride and passion and to turn your most treasured asset into true brand advocates.

Gallup recently reported that if your employees were “fully engaged,” your customers would be 70% more loyal, your turnover would drop by 70%, and your profits would jump by 40%. That’s a handsome payoff for creating a true company-employee partnership!

Key Five – Think Events and Sponsorships

You can win the hearts and minds of your constituents by using events and sponsorships that deliver your message in exciting and strongly personal ways.

Events communicate your organization in ways that matter to your audiences. They are key to reaching people and involving them. Events create bonds both emotional and practical and bring an excitement not available with traditional marketing methods.

Plan events of differing sizes at different locations and spread them throughout the year. Combine your celebration with scheduled existing events such as technical forums, consumer and trade shows. And create events that have general news media interest as well.

Polaris, a major manufacturer of snowmobiles, watercraft, ATVs, utility vehicles and Victory motorcycles, with annual sales of more than $1.6 billion, took over the state fairgrounds to celebrate their 50th. More than 25,000 riding enthusiasts and music fans showed up to help them celebrate.

Key Six – Celebrate all year long

Your anniversary marketing strategy should have a shelf life of at least a year. Don’t spend all your anniversary capital on a single event. Events and initiatives spread throughout the year, or even over 18 months, will keep interest in your company high within your various audiences, both internal and external.

Take a lead from the pages of Sports Illustrated. Partnering with Toyota, SI created a year long traveling celebration, the Toyota Presents Sports Illustrated’s 50th Anniversary Tour, a football field-size interactive site constructed state by state bringing Sports Illustrated to life for fans across the country.

Find innovative ways over the year to establish a true dialogue with your clients and customers and suppliers. Learn from them how you can help them grow and prosper, because they are the keys to your own success.

Red Hat, “The world’s most trusted provider of Linux and open source technology,” celebrated its 10th with a worldwide tour in which executives held forums and met one-on-one with customers in cities across the globe. Red Hat reported getting a greater sense of their users, their needs and wants, as well as now having more feeling and passion for their own work.

Key Seven – Get help to do it right

Accept that you can’t do it alone and get help.

A successful celebration combines many elements including planning, measurement, anniversary logo development, corporate history, public relations, event creation and management, website creation or redesign, and more.

Find someone who can assist you with the planning and strategy, but who also can implement those plans for you. Your anniversary is too important to leave to an overworked marketing department or an understaffed agency.

And make sure you get objective assistance from someone whose fee isn’t dependent upon how much you spend in certain categories, such as advertising or design or printing.

In a nutshell

The most important key to a successful company anniversary celebration is the first: Recognize that your corporate or brand anniversary has marketing value.

Ken Owens is president of Owens Marketing Group, http://OwensMarketingGroup.com and helps companies grow using the powerful marketing and branding tools of events and sports sponsorships, and aggressive public relations.

Ken is a member of the Kullberg Consulting Group (KCG) a strategic alliance of sixty entrepreneurially driven marketing and marketing communications companies, whose service, http://MarketingMilestone.com provides effective assistance to companies celebrating company or brand anniversaries. KCG, brings together the combined experience of its members working with over 585 companies, in 21 major industry groups.

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Whether you are looking for a first anniversary gift for your partner or friend you will want to find something that is a little different and special to celebrate this milestone.

Traditionally paper is the gift given to those that are celebrating their first year anniversary and this can be sent in many different ways including a newspaper from the year the marriage took place or even a pencil drawing of the couple, this type of unique first anniversary gift will become a lasting keepsake. Poetry makes a worthy choice, because not only will your gift be made out of paper, it will also contain your heartfelt messages of love, which after just one year, should be alive and well. However, they say that the first year of marriage is also the hardest, so you might need an opportunity to say ’sorry’ as well.

Roses are always associated with love and there are many companies that will supply red paper roses which are a grand romantic present that can also be personalized, this type of gift is usually given from husband to wife or wife to husband. The benefit of giving paper roses is that they will remain as a memory of the special occasion and are in keeping with the traditional theme of paper on the first year anniversary.

Because paper is traditionally given for the first anniversary you could also consider a message in a bottle, not only will the message be something personal it will be written on paper which will keep with the tradition for this year of marriage.

If you are looking for a gift for your husband or wife you really want to choose a gift that shows how much you love them and have thought about the gift they are about to receive. Whether the anniversary gift is homemade or purchased from a shop it must be something from the heart to be truly appreciated.

Many people these days, for one reason or another have simple low key weddings which take place in registry offices with only the bride and groom and witness present. If your wedding was this type and you did not celebrate by having a traditional reception it may be an idea to celebrate your first year anniversary by throwing a big party for all of your family and friends that were unable to attend your wedding.

Alternatively you may wish to celebrate such a special anniversary with just you and your loved one. A good idea would be to book a romantic night or even a weekend away together. Make sure if you if you decide to do this that you book well in advance and whilst booking why not try your luck and let the hotel know its your first year anniversary as you never know they may throw in a free bottle of champagne or a bunch of flowers at no extra cost.

Whatever you decide remember that your first year anniversary should be one that you never forget as it signifies the first year of your marriage and the start of a happy and loving relationship with your partner.

Allen Jesson writes for several sites that specialize in heartfelt First Year Anniversary Gifts and First Anniversary Gifts

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As you may know, women loves to talk about their relationship. Whenever my friends and I hang out, this is pretty much the main topic of the conversation, among other things. I like to learn from these stories though. One of the topics we talked about was regarding anniversary gifts. My friend Irene gave me a wonderful insight that I think is worth sharing with you.

Now, if you are like me and most women, you want a special gift for each anniversary you celebrate. I won’t even stay modest on that part. I love gifts. I like giving memorable ones and I appreciate receiving one too. But Irene made me realize that a problem may exist in this traditional anniversary celebration. Please allow me to explain.

How long have you been married, engaged, or dating your special someone? Now, every year you celebrate your anniversary and exchange gifts, right? If you look at the stuff in your jewelry box, your shelf, or credenza: can you identify the jewelry, stuff toys, etc. that you received from your anniversary? Do you remember which anniversary? Your first, second, 25th anniversary? I do not know how good your memory is, but I can not remember. There are gifts that stand out, but I do not remember when I received it.

But Irene and her husband has a very interesting arrangement for their anniversary. They set up goals for each other and reward each other with extraordinary gifts when they reached that goal. For instance, they set up a goal that they can make their marriage work five years down the line. Irene and her husband agrees what they will give each other when they reached that five year milestone. Although they celebrate their anniversary every year, the gift giving does not become mundane. And with this milestones that they set up together, they get to save enough money to buy extravagant gifts for each other.

Not only are their gift extravagant, it is loaded with sentimental value. The gift represents an accomplishment for the goals that they set up for each other. In addition, it represents a special occasion that only they two of them share, their anniversary.

So, as you can see, milestone or goal setting could increase the sentimental value of your gift. The gift can be anything. A stuff toy that you really liked, a particular jewelry, a trip, etc. Whatever it may be, by linking it to a goal, it becomes more than just any anniversary gift. It is also an accomplishment gift.

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All wedding anniversaries are special — whether it is the second year or the second decade. In these days of quick-marriage-and-even-quicker-divorce, any marriage that lasts beyond the honeymoon stage deserves to be celebrated!

Nine years of togetherness is no laughing matter — definitely a milestone in every sense of the term. A special day commemorating a special event in your life — to be celebrated with that special person.

Naturally, gifts and anniversaries are inseparable. So, what gifts are you planning to give your spouse which will tell her just how very unique she is?

For those creatively inclined, your choice is restricted only by your imagination! However, for those who seem to be stuck in the chocolates-flowers card rut, help is at hand. Each anniversary year has its own set of traditional and modern gifts as well as flowers and gemstones. You can easily make your 9th wedding anniversary gifts a diverse mix of the modern and the traditional.

Here are some ideas that showcase your creativity and resourcefulness!

Traditional and contemporary 9th anniversary gift ideas:

1. Willow is the traditional 9th anniversary gift. Get her a delicate willow figurine or plant a weeping willow tree in the garden and watch it grow over the years — like your love.

2. Pottery is an alternative traditional 9th gift. Pottery can be elegant and classy or fun and funky — take your pick! Show her that your love is burning as brightly as it was on your wedding day with a delightful bouquet of clay/ pottery roses.

3. Charm her with some unique ceramic pottery — maybe a lovely ceramic house decorated with roses which can also function as a small table lamp. If you can splurge, then some exotic Tuscan ceramics and Italian pottery that she can show off at her next party might be a great idea!

4. Leather is the modern 9th anniversary gift. For a contemporary touch, nothing beats leather. How about a classy leather bag or purse with a special gift tucked inside?

5. For the young and trendy woman, a chic leather flask in some hot colour like pink or mauve, complete with a monogram of her name on it, will make it a one-of-a-kind gift.

6. How about a leather jewellery roll with an anniversary ring inside?

7. Get creative! Jewellery gifts should be easy since you have two gemstones for the ninth anniversary year. Wrap some Tiger Eye and Lapis Lazuli pendants around a bunch of fresh poppies (the traditional flower for this year), and place them in a ceramic vase on her bedside table. Her wide-eyed look and thrilled smile should be worth all the effort.

Romantic gifts/ ideas:

1. Nine roses for the ninth year — but with a difference. Flowers wilt all too soon –even red roses — but you want to preserve them for eternity since they symbolise your undying love for your wife. Get gold, silver, platinum or crystal roses instead. If chocolates are her weakness (after you, of course) then tickle her funny bone and seduce her taste beds with some delicious-looking chocolate roses.

2. Book a limousine and surprise her with a sightseeing tour of the city. That’s right, even if you have been living in the same city for years, chances are that you still haven’t seen many of the sights that a visiting tourist is sure to have. Pack a picnic hamper if you both love to eat outdoors or head for a fancy restaurant for a quiet anniversary lunch once the excursion is over.

3. If you have children, then arrange for a babysitter or grandparents to step in and take care of them while the two of you rediscover your old magic. Have dinner at a swanky restaurant and then whisk her off to a five star hotel for the night. The sheer unexpected luxury of the entire experience will have her totally delighted and thrilled.

4. Make a gigantic card for her. Cover it with nine huge roses (real or paper), get colourful with crayons and glitter and stick nine love notes on it — each giving a reason why you love her so much.

Romance is the key to unlock a woman’s heart and the man lucky enough to achieve that will always have roses even in December!

Ms Mukherjee works in the UK gift industry. She is an experienced journalist, contributing editorial to several gift and relationship-related websites. There is more of her advice about the 9th anniversary at http://www.4-anniversary-gifts.co.uk/wedding-anniversary-year-gifts/9th-wedding-anniversary-gifts/. Daya also writes about gift-giving etiquette, gift ideas and gift giving in general at http://www.gifts-solved.co.uk/.

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‘A time like this is for old guards like us to get together and reel off dying memories of those good old days – the good old days at school, I mean.’ That was grandpa speaking whilst me as well as father and mother sat listening raptly to his chronicle of experiences.

Now gazing pensively into the distance, he continued: ‘Years have gone by, taking with them, good souls. Many of my school friends whose company I would have otherwise been enjoying are now safe in the world beyond – men like Doctor Oduwole Patson-Thompson, my best friend, always so compassionate and hilarious, but dutiful when it comes to work. Oh life! Fades just like a passing breath.’ Grandpa declines his head and relapses into another spell of reflections. Raising it up once more he turned towards me, saying, ‘We have done our part. We are now handing over to you, for you to play your own part.’ He took a deep look at father and turning to me and directing my attention to him said, ‘You see your father?” He took one long puff at his pipe and in a second his face is blurred by a thick haze of white smoke, as he continues reminiscing: ‘He has been hardworking and conscientious. For singleness of purpose, I couldn’t think of anyone to match him. That is why I think he has risen up the rung so fast. Senior Engineer, National Electricity Corporation. So young boy I will implore you to follow his footsteps closely so that you’ll never go wrong.’

My head remained bowed in humility as I maintained rapt attention to the grey-haired but still strong man. He returned to his usual pensive reflections for a while and then resuming voicing his thoughts, said: “Our own days were very difficult ones. There were no cars. Barefoot, we walked long distances to school, often through stony or untarred roads.’ I opened my eyes in disbelief and in quick reaction, he emphasized – ‘Barefoot, I’m telling you, my boy. You must thank God you are growing up in a world where much advancement has been taken place. You don’t have to go through the trouble we went through now. You won’t appreciate what I’m saying without having gone through the experience yourself.’

Grandpa at this point took a particularly long puff at his pipe and then threw up another cloud of whitening smoke which half covered his furrowed face. Then resuming, he went on to, ‘ I remember once when I had to walk from mid-town to Lumley, barefoot under the hot burning sun. And to add to it all, my head was bare having only the previous day been shaved right down to the skin. I could have worn a cap, but I couldn’t afford one. How I managed through that festering heat was to sometimes rest wherever I saw a tap, wash my face and feet before continuing or sometimes walking through patches of shade cast on the tarmac by tall buildings.’ Now cleaning his pipe and then refilling it, he said much loudly: “Those textbooks that you carry in your bag to school! Who could afford owning more than two or three of them then? If you didn’t listen to what the teacher said in class you’re finished, old boy. Teachers were then the be-all and end-all of everything in the classroom. For they spoke with power and authority whilst we, the helpless pupils, listened in rapt and reverent attention both in adoration and fear of losing the slightest details of what was being passed on to us. But despite all that, our days were still good ones. We did our very best, although competition was very keen. I remember now that a keen rivalry was always maintained between me, Oduwole Patson-Thompson, Gerald Thompson-Smith and Clifford Mac-Lawson. We were always in the 80’s. Only by fractions did we manage to outwit each other. So the first position will always be rotating between the four of us. I remember once when we gave the form teacher the rare opportunity of sharing the first position between me and Patson.’ Then smiling towards father, he said: ‘Football was our favorite game. We played it during the long break as well as after school. We often played against other schools. Most of the other players from other schools were big, strong and rough boys. They never scrupled in resorting to violence in the field of play. So our team composed mainly of slightly built boys didn’t always come off well. I remember once when in spite of all the fouls, our boys managed to beat the other team, how much jubilation there was.

Father kept smiling encouragingly at Grandpa as he continued his chronicle: ‘I was centre forward. Our goalkeeper then was Amadu Sheriff of blessed memory. He was a renowned goalkeeper, with great talents. No ball in my memory passed through those bars. It was as if he tied a charm to them. He thus became popularly known as ‘Amadu the unwinnable’. Another one, because of the power he had in his feet, got dubbed ‘the shooter’ He is still alive. I’ve forgotten his name though and strangely I don’t even know where he now lives.’

‘That’s really unfortunate!’ My mother lamented, ‘How nice it would have been to have had him with us today.’

‘Oh yes, and he’ll make good company as well…’ Father butted in to complement mother’s compliment and then sensing a sound, signaled, ‘I heard the door bell ringing.’

‘I heard it myself.’ Grandpa affirmed. Mother then asked me to go and see who. With grandpa’s critical eyes fixed squarely on me, I ran to the door. As I opened it, a huge and light-skinned man came in.

‘Oh, hello, Lightfoot,’ father heartily hailed him on recognizing him. ‘God! You seem to be getting younger and younger everyday. This woman must have a special hand for you, eh, lucky you.”

‘Oh no. Don’t pull my legs. Come on. This is nothing compared to yours. Seeing those muscles one would think you are still in your teens when you used to wrestle. And besides, your ever-smiling face gives the impression you’ve no problem at all. And how should you with such a beautiful wife always by your side?.’ My mother blushed and then burst into raucous laughter with all the adults there joining in as the new entrant kissed her on the hand. Father then introduced him to us as Dick Lefevre, an old school friend. ‘We were all in the graduating class of 1970.’

‘Pleased to meet you, old boy,’ Grandpa greeted him with a hand outstretched to him. ‘You’ve come in at a good time to share with us greetings and sentiments for a happy anniversary. Take a seat then and feel as much at home as you could.’

‘It is indeed a rare opportunity for us to reunite at such a time as this when we are celebrating our school’s centenary anniversary. I’m sure this should bring much inspiration to our young friend here and spur him to opt for no other school than ours.’ Whilst saying that Dick kept patting me fondly on the nape of my neck and continued, ‘How could he do otherwise? It’s only natural for one to opt for the best which is no other than what we consider so.’

‘Well, as a matter of fact he has already started going there.’

‘What! That’s damn smart of you, my young boy,’ Dick said, giving me a much warmer pat on the back this time. ‘ So you are quietly nurturing a new stock of Kingwaleans here, with the exception of the woman, of course.’

‘Oh she? She did sixth form there, you know.’

‘Well I just have now to doff my hat to you people. You have indeed completed the circle and therefore you are through and through of the noble stock. And indeed you have all due rights to have the greatest part in the celebrations.’

‘Don’t you say it , we are atready well prepared. The house is well -stocked, to start with. So let’s not be bothered about any other thing. Let’s just settle down here and have a rollicking good time. together.’

‘Oh how thoughtful of you people. I’m more than pleased.’ Dick seemed visibly enthused as Daddy went and brought out a tray of drinks which mummy proceeded to serve. After everyone had been served father started reminiscing, ‘I remember years ago when we were still at school’, he stole a mischievous look at granddad and with a beam-lit face, continued, ‘Indeed, those were days. How could they be otherwise with men like Tuboku-Betts and Taylor Davis around? They were never short of jokes to entertain us in class. I remember the incident between Tuboku and Pa Daba. That was when we were in Form 4 towards the end of 1968, I think.’

‘Oh Pa Daba!’ father’s friend exclaimed.’ He was a damn bloody tyrant. So I felt extremely good the day when Tuboku checked him up. I couldn’t remember what exactly he had done. But what I could recall is Pa Daba heaping strings of invectives at him. Then Pa Daba moved up onto his parents and there it became too much for Tuboku to stomach. He could not take it lying down anymore. So he rose up to his full height and gruffly said. ‘Look sir, I’m not going to take that from you, you understand?’ Pa Daba was shocked. He stood for some minutes dumbfounded and unable to utter one more word. Then he summoned his full authority as a teacher and demanded, ‘Who do you think you are talking to like that? Perhaps that’s the way you’ve been used to talking to your father. But I am going to teach you today how to talk to elders if your parents never did. Before Tuboku could realize it Pa Daba had fallen like a wounded hyena on him flogging him wherever he could reach including his face. Tuboku fought hard to repel the strokes. He then seized the cane and ran away with it, swearing and cursing. Pa Daba crestfallen, retired immediately from the now rowdy class. He never recovered from that blow to his ego.’

‘By the way could someone tell me where Tuboku and Taylor are? It reallyhas been quite a long time since I last saw them.’

‘Tuboku is working in the mines in Liberia. Taylor, I heard, is lecturing at a University in the U.S.’

‘Oh that’s so wonderful to hear.’

‘Everyone in that class is proudly holding his own in this highly competitive world. Even Abidor who was always clowning in class and thus becoming the target for the teacher’s constant curse: “You’d never come to any good! You’d never do well! You’d never come out well, you mark well my words.” is now a prosperous businessman in Nigeria. He was always first from the rear of the class, scoring remarkably low marks like 10% and 15% I can never remember any time he ever scored above 20%. But what would infuriate the teachers the most was that he was always preoccupied in taunting the younger, smaller and more brilliant boys who were the ones actively participating in class.’ He paused for a while, took a gulp at his beer and gulping it down, continued: ‘When last did you visit the school Dick? As for me, it has taken years. I’m certain to have many difficulties finding my way around and in even recognizing it.’

‘No doubt! The school is not in the same shape as it was when we were there. It has gone through many changes. Tomorrow we are to attend the prize-giving ceremony. So I hope we’ll meet there.’

As the evening was being spent away, the men who had drunk several glasses of alcohol were getting hilarious and were already pitching varying melodies in songs of praise. It was an all-out excitement which only ebbed as Grandpa and mother were retiring to bed for the night. Somehow I was able to remain lounging around and enjoying the fun. As I saw them gulping more and more of it, I felt tempted to steal up and get a gulp myself. How much I envied them, I must confess.

The centenary celebrations of a great school like ourss is by no means a small affair and when it happens to be of one to which so many great men in the land owe much of their life and career, one could then imagine how significant it could be. I am indeed lucky to have been enrolled at such an auspicious time. So I was filled with much eagerness to participate in every single part of the program.

Although Daddy had bought me a new pair of shoes, I briskly brushed all my shoes effecting from each a brilliant glossy shine. Mother had had me sewn a new suit. This had been pressed the previous day and with my shirt and tie looking very straight, hung on a hanger in the wardrobe.

As the time drew nearer, my anxiety mounted further up to feverish heights. I couldn’t even sleep that night. Imaginations of how grandiose the start of the celebrations would be like kept me awake. The elaborate preparations seen so far gives me much assurance it was going to be a very big and impressive show. What with the President himself slated to attend and open the celebrations. What also with the fire crackers, school bands parade, march past round the city and fun fare as side attractions?

So with great excitement, the next day, I wore my full ceremonial uniform of ‘cream- cream’ with matching straw boater and black shiny shoes. I then eagerly followed father, grandpa and mummy to our cream colored 504 saloon car. Daddy also neatly clad in his cream suit went towards the car, opened the door and sank swiftly into the soft cushioned seat of the driver’s compartment. He opened the other door on his other side and called mummy to come in and take her seat beside him. Then mummy promptly seated, opened the back doors for me and grandpa to get in. All of us now seated, all the doors were shut. Daddy then turned the ignition key. He pressed the accelerator. A hollow and sharp sound came. He turned the key again and pressed the accelerator once more. The same hollow sound was again emitted. He repeated the process but it was the same response. He decided now to allow the engine to cool down for a while. Death-like silence ensued as daddy kept looking silently at the machine as if praying to it to be of help. My excitement was already beginning to subside. I was on edge, praying to God, not to the machine, that we would not get late and that life would be restored to the stubborn engine. Father turned the ignition key once more whilst in my heart I kept fervently praying that it would respond positively, this time. But as he applied the accelerator, the same sound was again heard. ‘What an unfortunate thing to happen at such a time!’ Daddy exclaimed as he was opening the car door. Moving to the front bonnet, he got it opened. He ran his hand through a number of the suspected parts and ran back into the vehicle. He turned the key and applied pressure on the accelerator pedal. The response was resounding but deafening. A full-throated cry blared out from the previously reluctant engine. This restored everyone’s already sagging spirit. He went out again, this time to close the bonnet. Then he hastened back in and quickly settling into the seat, breathed a sigh of relief as the car moved out of the compound into the heavy traffic out. It was a long but refreshing drive passing streams of other cars destined for the same event as shown by their assemblage of the blazing cream colors.

After covering the long expanse of roads and avenues the car slowed down as it was negotiating into the school compound which was already jam-packed with people, cars and policemen. Father was directed to a spot where he parked the car.

We were all waiting for Dad to close the vehicle when mum raised an alarm. Looking at him wide-eyed, she was asking ‘John, what for goodness sake is that on your suit?’ He instantly stopped his action and carefully examined himself. He was struck at the sight of a large black band stretching from the right side of the waistline on his coat covering both the coat and his trousers. ‘Gosh! What ’s this now?’

‘Must be from the engine, when you were working on it, most likely,’ mummy suggested.

‘Well, seems like a decidedly unlucky day indeed. What else could one do now?’

Mummy, daddy and grandpa conferred and then decided that we return home . As for me, my heart sank into my body as we re-entered the car and were negotiating our way out of the crowded but festive air of the school compound.

‘Don’t worry, we’ll see everything on T.V tonight. The President being in attendance, it is surely going to receive full coverage. Just ensure you don’t sleep early’ Grandpa was trying to coax me. But my spirit was now sufficiently killed. As I arrived home, I had perforce to get to bed and slept right away. What for God’s sake is a television recording compared to being there flesh and blood yourself looking and delighting in the things that really bring joy to your heart.

Arthur Edgar Smith was born, grew up and schooled in Freetown, Sierra Leone. Having taught English since 1977 at Prince of Wales School and, Milton Margai College of Education, he is now at Fourah Bay College where he has been lecturing English, Literature, and Creative Writing for the past seven years rising to the rank of Senior Lecturer.

Mr Smith is widely published with his writings appearing in local newspapers as well as in West Africa Magazine, Index on Censorship, Focus on Library and Information Work amongst others .

He was one of 17 international visitors who participated in a seminar on contemporary American Literature sponsored by the U.S.State Department in 2006. His growing thoughts and reflections on this trip which took him to various US sights and sounds could be read at lisnews.org as well as here.

His other publications include: Folktales from Freetown, Langston Hughes: Life and Works Celebrating Black Dignity, and ‘The Struggle of the Book.’

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Traditionally, wedding anniversaries under the 20 year mark are usually acknowledged only by the couple themselves, however, today it’s not unusual for gatherings and celebrations to take place as early as the fifth year. The tenth year of marriage marks the first full decade of life spent together, and many couples are choosing to mark the occasion with an anniversary party, while others prefer to acknowledge the day with their own private celebration. Either way, ten years of marriage is indeed something special to celebrate!

Celebrating Your 10th Anniversary Together

The actual time of year when your anniversary occurs will have a lot to do with your plans, as it’s certainly much easier to plan a picnic or outdoor adventure in warmer weather, unless, of course, you’re planning to celebrate skiing down a mountain or doing some other type of winter fun.

For a quiet, romantic night at home or away in a cozy cabin, first do a bit of research online to find out what the best movies were the year you got married, then rent a few, pop some popcorn, snuggle up and enjoy the evening. Likewise, you could either make your own or purchase a CD compilation of the top songs from the year and dance the night away together.

Since daffodils are the flowers associated with this anniversary, plan a completely daffodil-themed day, which won’t be difficult to do as a quick search online offers countless choices for gifts, party supplies, trinkets, jewelry, and many other types of daffodil fare.

Visit the place you met and take a long, thoughtful walk down memory lane, remembering how it felt getting to know one another, falling in love, getting married, and enjoying the last ten years of your lives. As long as the two of you are together, it doesn’t really matter what you actually do, or where you go, reveling in the day is often all really you need.

Renewing Vows on Your Ten Year Anniversary

Renewing your wedding vows is an excellent way of celebrating any anniversary, especially if you are now able to have a different type of wedding, or have the honeymoon you always wanted, but never had. Some couples choose to write their own vows, a sentimental few words expressing their love for one another, while others prefer to stick with traditional vows, or a shortened version thereof.

In general, vow renewal ceremonies are usually done further down the road after the 20th or other “milestone” anniversary. However, it’s really a matter of personal preference and many couples do choose to mark their 10th year by exchanging vows again, either privately, or with their first bridal party present amongst family and friends. Some choose to have an intimate gathering, while others opt for a full blown gala complete with decorations, food, drinks, music, and plenty of laughter and memories.

Gift Ideas

Here are some theme ideas for celebrating a ten year anniversary:

- 10th Anniversary Color: Blue or silver

- 10th Anniversary Flower: Daffodils to symbolize cheerfulness, happiness, and joy

- 10th Anniversary Gemstones: Diamonds, blue sapphire

- 10th Anniversary Gift (Modern/Contemporary): Diamonds, diamond jewelry

- 10th Anniversary Gift (Traditional): Tin or aluminum to symbolize flexibility and malleability

Gifts could include any decorative item made from tin or aluminum, which would stand for the durability of the relationship, paying tribute to successfully withstanding the first ten years of marriage. Personalized items abound made from both tin and aluminum including paper weights, decorative wall scones and candle holders, or anything related to the daffodil. A simple picture of the daffodil in a tin frame would be the perfect 10th wedding anniversary gift.

As for gifts for each other, couples could choose from any number of dazzling pieces of blue sapphire or diamond jewelry, including bracelets, necklaces, pins, and rings.

A 10 Year Wedding Anniversary Party

When hosting or planning a 10 year anniversary party, keep in mind the previous symbols and colors when choosing the decorations and invitations.

Daffodils could be easily incorporated into the theme of the party, and while you may have trouble finding some that are reasonably priced if they’re out of season in your area, craft stores are filled with realistic looking faux flowers and with a bit of imagination and creativity, the possibilities are endless to create many beautiful decorations. The colors silver and blue combine together wonderfully and represent the gemstones associated with the ten year anniversary; diamonds and blue sapphires, symbolizing durability and strength.

Some couples may feel uncomfortable at the thought of receiving gifts for their anniversary, if this is the case, simply request on the invitation that no gifts be given, and that all of the guests simply sharing in your special day is all the gift you need.

Another great idea is to request that in lieu of gifts and presents for the couple, guests should make a donation to a certain charity, or a specific one of their choice. This allows couples to celebrate their good fortune on their anniversary by spreading the love and wealth with others.

Author: Bennetta Elliott CEO of Personalized Gift Express, a great resource for Wedding & Anniversary favors and personalized gift ideas.

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As we get closer to that magic 50th anniversary, the anniversary gift ideas seem to be getting either stranger and stranger or more and more expensive or both. This year’s anniversary gift may not be expensive but it is certainly different. For those of you who have never created anything original in your life, this year’s offering may be a bit of a challenge for you. Welcome to the world of original poetry.

Yes, we kid you not. This year it is your job to get your spouse something to do with original poetry. No, this doesn’t mean that you get out a napkin and scribble some cheap limerick on it. This is the time for you to come up with some lovely words of love to give to your lifelong partner, for better of for worse. However, there is a loophole to this gift that just might get you through it in one piece.

Original poetry, by common understanding, is poetry that has never appeared in print before. In other words, you can’t give your spouse a framed copy of a classic piece of poetry by one of the masters. However, there is nothing stopping you from going to a professional poet and having them write something specially for you. Yes, you’re probably going to pay through the nose for this service, depending on how well known the poet is, but 46 years of marriage is certainly worth it, wouldn’t you say?

Of course, you can always go to one of those specialty stores that comes up with these original pieces of poetry, but the truth is, they’re not really original. The way it basically works is that they have a large database of poetry and you just pick out something that you like. Technically, this stuff has never been published but there’s a very good chance that the piece that you pick out has been given to some other person somewhere. So there is a very gray area here as to whether or not this actually constitutes an original piece of poetry.

In any case, whether you get your poetry from a professional, custom made, or one of these specialty stores, or even write something yourself, you’re going to want to put it in something nice. There are many frames that you can get. First, you have to decide what type of paper you want the poetry printed on, including the size. You also want to pick out a font that is fancy. Plain Ariel is kind of bland. A decorative script font will do nicely.

As to the frame itself, you don’t want to go the cheap route here. A nice gold frame will be a welcome gift. Yes, it’s going to cost a few bucks, but don’t forget, if you write this gem yourself, there is no cost involved there other than the paper and having it printed up, which you can do with your own computer and printer if you have one.

It’s gifts like these that really show your spouse your love. Put some thought into it and you’ll do just fine. Even if you do have to get somebody else to write your words of love.

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Buying your boyfriend anniversary gifts can be a very daunting task, and there are a lot of things one has to consider before making a final decision. Guys have it easy when it comes to buying gifts for their girlfriends; anything from flowers, to chocolates, to jewelry will do just fine. But it’s a much more difficult task for the girls.

It’s difficult to find the right gift, especially since you have to think about what this gift will ’say’ about your feelings and/or expectations. Guys can be extremely analytical when it comes to relationships, and most of them read into the finer details – the wrong gift to the wrong guy can be a hint that you take this relationship more seriously than he does.

So how do you go about finding the perfect gift?

How long you have been dating, or how long you have known each other, can give a reasonably good idea of the type of boyfriend anniversary gift you should get. For example, if you have only been dating for a year, an expensive engraved ring is not likely to be seen as an appropriate gift as it is too personal, and rings in relationships are symbolic of commitment. A more appropriate gift might be something as simple as a CD by his favorite artist, or a book that you think he would enjoy. This way you are showing him that you pay attention to his likes and dislikes, but are not pushing the idea of commitment; an idea that scares many men.

While something simple like a CD or a book would be suitable to a year, or even six months of dating, a gift for a boyfriend of, say, a few years (or more), could be more personal. After this amount of time, engraved rings may be suitable. Another idea would be a framed photo of the two of you and a memento of your first date – this could be in the form of a letter, or the first song that you danced to, or even a copy of the menu from the restaurant (if you went out to dinner for your first date). Buying your boyfriend an anniversary gift does not necessarily need to be a difficult task. Once you think about the time you have spent together, and how seriously you both take the relationship, giving the appropriate gift can be quite simple.

Another way to make it simpler is to use a date as a gift. Try something new, like a swap-date. You pay for the food, which is his gift, and swap your favorite books, or CDs. Now, this sort of thing only goes over well for certain guys, so if you know your guy doesn’t like sharing, or isn’t into this kind of getting-to-know-you activity, you’ll know not to try this with him, but otherwise it can be a simple way to have some fun and for you both to get to know each other a little better. The lack of a normal gift-wrapped present may take away the awkwardness if it is your first anniversary.

His personality and interests

Adapt your boyfriend’s anniversary gift to suit your guy’s interests. If he is a musician, for example, there are a lot of things you can do, like buy him a book (music related books or a biography of an influential band/artist) and tie to the front cover something suited to your boyfriend’s talents or interests – like a pair of drumsticks, or a guitar pick. This little extra shows that you really put effort into your gift, and it adds personality. It’s not just a book; it’s a romantic gift to be treasured. Of course, not all girls date musicians but this idea can be adapted to most talents and interests.

Sometimes women overcomplicate things when it comes to buying their boyfriends an anniversary gift. And, often what they buy falls short of expectations. Choosing a dating anniversary gift does not have to be so hard. In fact, it doesn’t have to be hard at all, just look at what his personality is, what he likes, and your own personality and talents. Those personal touches – like drumsticks to a music book, are essential. You have everything you need right now to choose a great gift, so relax!

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